Sunday, November 01, 2009
4 reasons on why more and more people are staying single......
- They are afraid to get hurt AGAIN!
- They love freedom and hate commitments....
- They are too damn choosy or have too high expectations towards who they want
- They must be REALLY UGLY!
Look....those are seriously the facts on why people are staying single. I fall under the category of Number 2...although I just broke up but I seriously hate commitments and relationships. Here is the annoying part of being attached to someone.
First of all, you have to call him/her every now and then and go like "Honey, I am gonna go out with my friends ok?"....and he/she would go..."Who are your friends?" (like as though they know every single one of my friends)...."Oh, they are from my primary school...we have been best friends since like FOREVERRRRR!!" (Ok, actually I just lied...I'm meeting SOMEONE rather than FRIENDSSSSSS)
See you're forced to lie from time to tme....and the calling in to report what you are doing is seriously quite hectic.
Another thing about being in a relationship, they do not have insurance...This goes to the category 1 people. You want to be single most probably because you've been hurt so much and you just probably stop believing in love and fairytales. All you want to do is be alone and get flings from all over the world and wait till one day there's insurance for LOVE or relationships then u'll start considering again!
I believe that there would be insurance for LOVE one day...I mean you have insurance policies for almost everything now. Why not have insurance for LOVE to assure that your loved one is never gonna runaway!
Category 3....you have expectations and this list of I WANT HIM/HER TO BE LIKE THIS! and seriously no one is perfect and it's never gonna work. If you keep expecting him/her to be your perfect dream guy/girl, then all the ugly and stupid and useless one will be like bachelors and old maids that makes tonnes of money because they have no commitments to anyone except for their cats and dogs!
Category 4....If you have been trying so hard and been doing all you can and yet....no one loves you!....THE TRUTH IS....U R UGLY!....Guys, you can't use makeup but you can dress up nice to present yourself well but if all else fails, I think you seriously need plastic surgery. Girls, you can use makeup, clothes, diets and again if all else fails, you need a plastic surgery too. But no one is ever too ugly that no one loves them....like what Akira always says, "NO ONE LOVES ME, BUT MY MUM DOES....SHE ALWAYS SAY I AM SPECIAL!!" and he feel proud about it....
So learn from Akira and start to not worry so much and still believe in love.
I still do.....even after everything I have experienced recently.
Learn from Yu Ying a.k.a. Miechelle, attached but obviously still having so much fun!!! ahem..
LIVE IT, LOVE IT!!
Labels: lessons from ME
12:28 AM
Monday, October 12, 2009
Well before you know it....things has changed again! I'm back to square one...and I am all single again!
It was a good experience to get to know Mr.U and I take it as a life lesson!
It does hurt right up till now....and everything happens for a reason. I did tried my best...I put in my 100% effort but it did not work out.
I still do believe in fairytales and I know my life does not just ends here...there's still a lot to learn and experience.
I wish the best for Mr.U and to all my friends and readers...Sorry to disappoint you but this new change in my life was actually just another phase in my life!
It did not last because of arguments and we did end in good terms. I know I will be fine soon and losing someone like Mr.U just tells me tat I should watch more closely before getting together with someone!
I want to thank my friends like Leonard, Ching Yi(my superb best friend), Danny Daniel and Peter Yow for accompanying me and being the most supportive friends that I have ever met....
You guys have been there for me and I really appreciate it! Life goes on and I am looking forwar d to moving on and letting go! Thanks guys! I love you all!
LIVE IT, LOVE IT!
Labels: bittersweet story
1:35 PM
Thursday, October 08, 2009
Well, like any mothers, my mother can get really annoying sometimes but I still love her!!
So I had to like go out with Mr.U without letting my mum know which was really difficult and then she started to suspect.......
Well I took a smart move first....I let my dad know first...and see if he is OK with it!! and Daddy is always the best guy...he is OK WITH EVERYTHING allll the time!!
After my dad was fine with everything. All I really need to do is let my mum know that i have this "friend" who is a little more special compared to other friends!
One night, there was a party in my mum's best friend's house. I should really award myself with the BEST CREATIVE MIND title!....I took Mr.U there....and the reason why I took him to the party was because:
- Even if my mum is really pissed off....it is still her friend's house. She can't possibly do anything to me there and then
- My mum's friends love to look at people and then give compliments~! and I was confident they would definitely like Mr.U and convince my mum that he is alright with me!
- I could just slip away quietly for movie and dinner with Mr.U after that.
See, kill 3 stones with one bird......
Oops...kill 3 birds with one stone!....hahaha...!! So amazing right? From that night onwards...everything changed...my mum gave me full freedom to go out with him!
HAHAHHHAAHAHHAA and now...life goes on and on and I do not know when wil this stop! Hopefully it doesn't! I'm pretty happy now with everything...Approval from parents, a good boyfriend and studying only once a week!!!
LIVE IT, LOVE IT!
Labels: bittersweet story
10:39 PM
